[Social Networking] 5 Ways You Can Build Your Reputation Online
June 17th, 2008 · Filed Under: Bob The Teacher Training · List Building · Social Networking · Viral Marketing
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Five Ways You Can Build Your Reputation With Social Networking
By Bob Jenkins
Are you using social networks to build your reputation online? Whether you already are or you are just getting started with sites like Twitter, Facebook, and Ning, building your online reputation is your biggest responsibility.
Here are five ways to make sure you do it right.
#1: Be Proud Of Being You
The first thing is, you have to be yourself. You have to be who you are. Because although you can get away with being fake for a little while, as soon as one person realizes that you’re not who you say you are, your reputation is destroyed almost instantly because of the power of social networking.
So be yourself. And don’t be afraid of being yourself. Realize that you have some gifts and some knowledge that people need to know about, and those that want to learn from you are going to gravitate towards you. Those that don’t think you’re worth listening to are basically going to ignore you. And it’s at their peril, so don’t worry about them.
#2: Transparency - Never Hide From Your Audience
The second thing about your reputation is you should try to be transparent at all times. This means you keep everything real with your audience.
For example, over the last year, I used social media to show you my move from Maryland to North Carolina, including drama with the movers, picking the house, and getting it set up. I also pulled back the curtain to show what it takes to run a product launch.
When I did my last product launch, I was Twittering every day what I was doing to get ready for this site. Most of the gurus out there would keep everything under lock and key, and I was being very clear, saying, “This is what I’m doing to get ready for this launch.” It actually helped me have a better launch, even though I told everybody exactly what I was going to be doing.
They didn’t think that they had some surprise or whatever like most people teach; they just were excited to be part of it and part of the story. So be transparent. Let people know what you’re doing and why you’re doing it, and they’re going to learn how to trust you.
#3: Be Positive For Positive Results
The third way to build your reputation is to be positive.
There are folks out there who generally can do a good job of being negative. I don’t know about you, but I don’t find that to be a very long-term profitable strategy.
It may get you some attention at first and spark some controversy, but that’s not the way to go. Be looking forward to the optimistic of your industry, of your business and what the results are going to be.
It would be easy for you to go onto Twitter or onto Facebook and talk about how you’re having a bad day or this product sucks or this week sucks or this relationship sucks. But you’re not really there for a support network, per se.
You’ll find some of that. If you have something bad happen in your life, sharing it with your followers will be very therapeutic for you and you will get a lot of support back. But when you’re just blasting negative things out, you’re going to get negative things in return, usually.
So try to be positive as much as possible and look for the opportunities that are out there and look at them from that positive perspective.
#4: Build Your Reputation And They Will Come
The fourth thing you must do is to be patient. This is because, initially, your reputation is going to be built only by yourself and the first initial people who get to know you. But as time goes on and you get more followers and you build a larger network of friends and peers, your reputation will solidify to allow your business to grow.
Once it hits a tipping point, your reputation and business accelerates at a very quick pace.
So be patient and let it happen. Don’t try this stuff out for a week and then come back to me next week and say, “Well, it didn’t really work. I didn’t really get any results yet.” You’ve got to let social networking play out over a few weeks and then a couple months and so on. A year from now your business is going to be tremendously different compared to where it is right now.
#5: Contribute To The Conversation – Every Day!
The fifth thing about your reputation is you need to be someone that people look to as a contributor, not as a leech, not as a mooch, as a contributor.
You have to be willing to be involved in the conversation, and you have to be willing to give as much or even more than what you’re going to get in return. The people who do that are growing so fast it makes my head spin.
I feel that I’m a pretty giving person but I see some other folks out there that just keep on giving, giving, giving and they just build up a huge following and that social capital is a real asset to your business. So you need to make sure that you’re contributing as much as possible to the conversation.
I don’t mean that as just go around randomly and try to help people. Within your specific task, your specific industry, the things you know well, you need to be at the forefront of letting people know how to do what you know how to do without charging them money at first.
They’ll come and find your site and your products and they’ll pay you for that as time goes on and their needs grow. With social networking you need to be building your reputation up first.
If somebody has a question, you should be one of the first people who answers and you need to answer without reservation not just, “Oh, I answered that in my eBook; go buy it”. They’re going to find your eBook if you just talk to them and give them solutions to the problem they are struggling with at that moment.
Give people your input, your encouragement for them to get better at what they are trying to do.
Any little quick free advice you can give, give it.
Actively Build Your Reputation With Social Networking And Reap The Rewards
You’ve got to be in this for the reason of having fun and really building that relationship. Dollars will come, there’s no doubt about that. But first, connect with people and really help them out. Understand that they’ll become loyal followers of what you do and see you for who you are.
Follow these 5 steps to building your reputation online and you’ll not only beat your competition, you’ll have more fun doing it!
Bob Jenkins teaches business owners how to use internet marketing strategies effectively to attract more customers and get more sales – without spending a fortune on advertising. Discover more ways to power your business with social networking at www.DiscoverSocialNetworking.com.
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June 17th, 2008 at 6:23 pm
Hi Bob,
Great article. I just ventured into the Social Networking seen 3 weeks ago and I so regret not doing it sooner.
I am mastering FB right now and staring the process on MySpace and Twitter is out there somewhere.
The potential is limitless if you do it right. At least that is what I am realizing.
Thanks,
Jim
Join Me on FaceBook: http://profile.to/jimmarsh/
June 17th, 2008 at 8:13 pm
I’m agreed with you that “transparent” and “sincerity” is important for us to build up our relationship and reputation in social networking community.
To your success
Bryan Hee
June 17th, 2008 at 8:22 pm
Man, on vacation and still working?! Great article Bob. One of the toughest things for me is STAYING active. I’ll be really active for a few weeks, then it dwindles. Thanks for the reminder!
Have fun in Poland!!!
June 18th, 2008 at 2:23 am
Bob, I am kind of confused now. Social Networking, yes but where do you draw the line between business and personal socializing. There comes a point when it becomes too great to handle
June 18th, 2008 at 6:52 am
Brinderpreet - you raise a great point, and one that I am sure a lot of people think about. My answer to you is included in the article - be transparent and be proud of being you. If your business revolves around what you are really good at, and who you are authentically, then you will likely live and breathe your expertise. It’s likely you can’t really turn it off.
This is why what Matt says is funny to me - I enjoy doing what I do so even on vacation, I don’t mind spending a few minutes doing it.
Matt - to your other comment about staying active, I encourage you and others who have social networking ADD to focus on just a couple of sites. This is why you will only hear me talking about Facebook, Twitter, and Ning - to some these aren’t necessarily the best. But to me, these are the three (plus Squidoo for content) major Web 2.0/social networking sites that I’ve decided to use. This helps me focus just on those, even though there are hundreds of others you could use.
As for why I don’t use MySpace - I find it to be too chaotic (something I am hoping Facebook avoids although it’s venturing into that territory as well) and spammy. There are so many autobots out there (more likely Decepticons, really) that make it something unfun for me.
I do recommend you set up an account on as many of the services as you can, just to protect your name and direct people on your profile pages to the ones you use the most.
Bob
June 18th, 2008 at 8:55 am
Hey Bob,
Great article! I’ve resisted the whole social network game for a long time, and only recently joined Face Book (was invited by Glen Hopkins, so I decided it might be a good time to get with the program!).
As for you taking the time to post while on vacation, hey, if you love what you do, why would you want to stop doing it just because you’re on vacation? :)
Keep leading the way!
Carlin
June 18th, 2008 at 1:38 pm
Hi Bob,
I missed your April call about social networking, and need to go back and listen to the replay. It is beginning to make sense to me that I can build a list through my participation on social networking sites much more quickly than I can just from a website newsletter, so I am working on them frequently, especially facebook and twitter, but there are lots of things on both sites that I see others doing that I am not able to replicate. How about those book mark icons on Facebook, for example? No hurry, you can wait until you have one foot past customs to answer. Have fun. Mike Logan
June 20th, 2008 at 8:31 pm
Hi Bob,
I really enjoyed this post and the one about building a great profile. Being transparent is difficult for me because I am a private person, but I am growing in that area.
As far as the relationships, I am finding it does take time but being genuinely interested in your online friends comes through and you will become respected. I can see that happening for me in the few short months I’ve been online (very part-time.)
I was happy to hear you say you focus on 3 social sites. I was finding it difficult to manage and have basically determined to work on Twitter and Facebook. I really don’t like MySpace, but I opened an account to claim my space as you say. (pun intended.)
Thanks for sharing your experiences. Carla (former teacher, too!)
June 26th, 2008 at 8:27 pm
Hi Bob…
Really great and important article!
I’ve been using certain networks for quite a few months … initially, it got to a point where I was overloaded in what I was doing on the net and I had to draw a line. It is important to focus on just a few sites because otherwise you spread yourself way too much. And it’s very easy for several hours to pass on by on social network sites if you don’t watch out!
Jeanne
July 16th, 2008 at 5:28 am
Hi Bob, I’ve just purchased your ‘Discover Social Networking’ product. I run a small business over here in the UK and there are just so many things to do, there aren’t enough hours in the day and I’m scared to death about outsourcing stuff which I know is potentially holding me back. Anyway, I want to learn about social marketing but I haven’t got a clue where to begin, there are so many things to look at. What I really need is a starting point…a step-by-step social marketing blueprint for my business. The social marketing landscape is overwhelming and I don’t want to waste my time on sites that aren’t going to ultimately impact my bottom line. Thanks for putting this product together and for giving me something to focus on.
Best Wishes
John O’Hara
July 20th, 2008 at 3:48 am
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August 14th, 2008 at 9:39 am
Hey Bob,
Great post on social networking! I just bought your audios and the Freemind. I wanted to et you know that both offerings are exacty what I need to expand my presence on the internet. My jewelry business needs a big boost in traffic and I hope social networking helps.
Just a note, your blog here shifts off to the far right…I amost missed the blog post because it runs off the screen. Your header and the blog text need to be aligned or something.
Best Regards and tweet, tweet
Michael Madden
http:www.JewelryShoppersService.com
August 15th, 2008 at 12:12 pm
Hi Bob,
I’m always looking for your stuff on the internet because I find that you are excellent in breaking seemingly complex things down to make it very easy to understand. Okay, down to my comment….for a long time, I avoided these social network thingy’s (is that a word?!) because I’m so private. Always have been. It bothered me to be found by people I’d like to forget on sites like myspace, facebook, etc….um, it still bothers me, haaaaaa.
Furthermore, I was afraid that I’d be “found out” by the “professional world” that I’m really not their picture of “professional”….I say outrageous things, I go where few will go with my writings/articles, I’m on the zanny, wild side with how I express myself and when it comes to the articles, LOOK OUT! It sometimes takes days before the online editors will remove the “pending” status and “approve” my articles to go live.
I think it’s because they go and consult with their lawyers, first to make sure approving what I write will not get them shut down. I was afraid that the people I hope to snag as small business clients would trash me and not hire me because I burned skirt-suit and tie and choose to don a tiarra and designer jeans instead. lol.
But, I’ve recently changed my social networking actions because, um, I simply don’t care anymore. Yep, I think that’s the bottom line. The fact is this: I am who I am and no more trying to hide it from the “professional world.” Some of them are a bunch of stiff-necks anyway and would do us all a favor if they had 3 drinks before they got out of bed. I’ve tried conforming and I’ve always felt like I was constipated - every time.
Conforming in my speaking at small events, conforming in my dress, conforming in my article marketing and frankly, it sucks. And puts me to sleep. So, if you find earlier writings of mine on the internet that doesn’t insult wife-beaters, snobs who secretly watch Jerry Springer, and the like…just know I was (vomit!)…conforming.
The bottom-line is this….I can get any authors, any business, any not-for-profit, or an incurable ham who simply wants to hog up the limelight PUBLICITY to sell their product, service, or cause. It took me more than 28 STRAIGHT months of sitting my bum down and learning all of this (and marketing). I’ve gotten publicity for myself in my neck of the woods (and, Japan) over and over again — just for fun! Am I boasting? yep.
I earned it.
Another bottom-line, I can walk into any small business and list at least 12 reasons why they are losing money and making very little and one of the places that I can determine that is by looking at their customer retention system. Ummm, most biz ain’t got one!
Herein lies the problem. I can re-activate their database of lost/dead customers by using a few marketing strategies I’ve learned along the way and instantly revive their dying bank accounts and put some money in their bank accounts. Write advertising that will bring in new business GUARANTEED? Yep, can do that too. Track, measure, analyze the response so as to find what is working and do more of that? $$$$$ yep, can do that too.
Go toe to toe with any marketing expert or small business owner and come out on top with my results? Yep. Now, that’s the kind of confidence no money can buy. And once again, I earned it. Most people don’t deserve that badge of honor because they CHOOSE to be lazy, EMBRACK lack of motivation, and DECIDE to be weak.
Good.
Praise Zeus!! More money, more success for me.
And for the VERY few willing to claw their way out of a life of nothingness and absolute dread.
Alright, off to write on some bathroom walls. :-)
Yves Marie Danie Baptiste
August 19th, 2008 at 7:09 pm
Bob Your tips on creating a successful and profitable blog are right.
Thanks for posting this information for the benefit of all!
Giving (as you have done) is the concept in the book “Go Giver”.
thanks again
August 29th, 2008 at 1:06 am
Thanks. Love free information. Just getting started.
August 29th, 2008 at 8:16 pm
Be honest with yourself first. If the understanding of I is not present first, then the we shall be slow in commencement. Trust in you first, the rest is easy. Thank you Bob.
September 26th, 2008 at 11:13 pm
Great advice once again, thanks Bob!
I have been active on the new Facebook, MySpace and Twitter for some time now and found that I was most successful when I ‘mass-branded’ myself; I used the same username and personal picture and kept up a consistent standard of content where I could!
Digg, Tehcnorati, StumbleUpon and Propeller were other sites where I kept the branding similar too!
I love Your blog and emails Bob!
Muchos Grascias Senor!
Dave.
September 29th, 2008 at 11:17 am
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October 28th, 2008 at 8:47 am
Bob
Thank you so much for the “5 ways to build my reputation with social networking”. I agree with many of your points except for maybe the one about contributing daily. If I were to be true to myself, my family deserves to have my time on those days that we dedicated to that.
I love my work very much and see myself on the verge of being a workaholic. That is why for me, it is really important to be able to put some distance occasionally from my work and focus on what is also my passion: my family. If they were not there, my work would not be as fulfulling.
I do respect what you said and just wanted to add my thoughts on this. Again, great ideas and looking forward to reading more of your articles.